For those of you looking for the DSO Fraternity, you are in the right place! We have recently rebranded our private men's group to fall under the more inclusive "Help For Men" brand. We look forward to reaching a larger group of men all over the world, allowing us to increase our membership and keep adding benefits for our members.

As it has always been, the group will remain for MEN ONLY!

One truth we have learned over the years: It is absolutely crucial for men to have a "tribe" if they wish to succeed in life. As a man, your mental and physical health very much depends on your association with a group of like-minded men that you can count on.
Thank you for taking a moment to learn about our private group for men only that we call the HFM brotherhood. If there's one thing I've learned over the years of working with guys is that if you want to expedite the process of self- improvement, the quickest and the best way is by working with other people, more specifically, other like -minded people, guys that are on the same mission that you are on, they have the same attitude, they have the same goals, and have the same values.

Scroll down and you will see membership pricing. Give membership a try for a month or two. It may not be for you. You may find that you don't have the time or energy to put into joining a group and giving feedback and getting feedback and making new friends and talking to others and putting in the work necessary to succeed in life. Our group may not be for you and that's okay.

But if it is, what we find is that most of the guys sign up and stick around for a month or two, then they sign up for an annual plan or even a lifetime plan (almost 75% of our members are life-timers). Once the guys are in, they find that they make some lifelong friends and it's a great group to belong to. So check it out. The HFM brotherhood. Thank you so much guys and I look forward to meeting you!

- Ralph

You will get access to all current and future books written by Ralph and the other coaches at no additional charge. PDF and audiobook format (if available). Listen from your phone!
Private Discussion Forums
We have an EXTREMELY active private forum with members from around the world. Since we started our group, over 50,000 unique discussions have been created!
Member-Only Podcast
We have a podcast that we record for members only. Think of them as monologues from our coaches and members. You can listen right from your phone's podcast app!
Live Zoom Meetings
We conduct live zoom meetings for our members 2-4 times per week. Meetings last anywhere from 1-2 hours on average. Participation is encouraged by not required.
Discounts on Coaching and Courses
We offer coaching from our HFM team as well as courses for your to watch and learn from as often as you like. HFM Brotherhood members get 50% discounts on these products.
Access to Conferences and Meetups
Our members gather for formal conferences and informal meetups on a regular basis. Join us and meet your fellow members and the HFM team in-person!
✓Free Books (PDF & Audio)
✓Discussion Forums
✓Live Zoom meetings
✓Access to Meeting ✓Recordings
✓Access to In-Person Gatherings
✓Discounts on Coaching and Courses
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✓Discussion Forums
✓Live Zoom meetings
✓Access to Meeting ✓Recordings
✓Access to In-Person Gatherings
✓Discounts on Coaching and Courses
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✓Live Zoom meetings
✓Access to Meeting ✓Recordings
✓Access to In-Person Gatherings
✓Discounts on Coaching and Courses
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✓Discounts on Coaching and Courses
  • "I still have some way to go on my quest to be a better man however I have access to a group of guys that can help me along the way and keep me accountable so I do not slip back to the way I was. My favourite part of being part of the group is being able to give back with some advice that could help someone else."

     - Bill

  • "The group is not anti-women which is also great and we get to hear the female perspective of some of the coaches wives and other women in their lives. If you are a man who is feeling lost, frustrated and or alone then this the group you need to help get you back in the game."


  • I am leading a much more satisfying life with the help of the men here. Giving back to the men who have helped me and paying it forward to the new members joining is also an amazing feeling." 

    - Patrick

  • An awesome bunch of guys from all over the world who are all here for each other no matter what. So much knowledge from men who have been through it all and are willing to assist each other. One of the best investments in my self improvement I have ever made."

    - Chris

  • "I was still dealing with resentment following my wife’s Emotional Affair that happened a number of years ago. The men in the group have helped me see how I was creating this dynamic by not allowing forgiveness and trust after so long. The men here are about helping each other be the best they can be."

    - Patrick

  • The advice given in the group has proven to be priceless. Everything from relationship to career choices... I've greatly improved my quality of life. I can't say enough good things about this group.

    - Richard

  • The group definitely helped save my marriage. Being the best man you can be is much easier when you have this resource on hand.

    - Michael

  • If this group was available to me when I was younger, I would've made a lot better decisions in my life. I'm thankful to have it now. What do you have to lose by joining? Do it.

    - Noor

  • I can't believe how much having this group has helped me change my life. I cannot express enough how much it helps.

    - Jason

  • The group has the best, most supportive guys you will ever meet. I cannot recommend the group enough. Do yourself a favor and join.

    - Jeff

... of our members are lifetime members!
Topics Covered in Our Forums and Meetings
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  • Dead Bedrooms
  • Emotional Vulnerability
  • Divorce
  • Parenting 
  • Dating After Divorce
  • Finding Your Mission
  • Career and Finances
  • Happy Marriages


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