Ready to stop repeating the same relationship mistakes? "Red Flags" gives you the roadmap to recognize relationship disasters before they happen. Don't learn these lessons the hard way - through divorce court and custody battles.
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THE RED FLAGS GUIDE THAT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE
Are You About to Make a Million-Dollar Mistake?
The average divorce costs a man $500,000+ in assets, alimony, and child support over his lifetime. But the real cost? Years of your life you'll never get back. The mental anguish. The regret of knowing it could have been avoided.
What if you could spot the warning signs before it's too late?
This isn't your typical dating advice. This is a survival guide written by someone who learned the hard way - and has spent over a decade helping 1,000+ men avoid the same devastation.
Here's the uncomfortable truth: The woman who destroys your life isn't going to announce herself as toxic. She'll seem perfect at first. Caring. Passionate. Maybe even a little broken in a way that makes you want to save her.
The red flags are there from day one. You're just not trained to see them.
What You'll Discover:
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This book is for men who want to love with their eyes wide open.
You don't have to choose between being a good man and being a wise man. You can be both.
The good news? This is completely preventable. You don't have to learn these lessons through divorce court, custody battles, and starting over at 45.
You just need to know what to look for.
Don't let hope blind you to reality. Get the guide that helps you see clearly before you're in too deep.
Your future self will thank you.
Are You About to Make a Million-Dollar Mistake?
The average divorce costs a man $500,000+ in assets, alimony, and child support over his lifetime. But the real cost? Years of your life you'll never get back. The mental anguish. The regret of knowing it could have been avoided.
What if you could spot the warning signs before it's too late?
This isn't your typical dating advice. This is a survival guide written by someone who learned the hard way - and has spent over a decade helping 1,000+ men avoid the same devastation.
Here's the uncomfortable truth: The woman who destroys your life isn't going to announce herself as toxic. She'll seem perfect at first. Caring. Passionate. Maybe even a little broken in a way that makes you want to save her.
The red flags are there from day one. You're just not trained to see them.
What You'll Discover:
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- 36 specific red flags organized into 6 categories that predict relationship disaster
- Why "good men" consistently choose the wrong women (and how to break the cycle)
- The #1 mistake men make that turns them into emotional and financial targets
- How to spot manipulation disguised as love
- Digital-age red flags that didn't exist 10 years ago but are destroying relationships today
- Real stories from men who ignored the signs - and paid the price
This book is for men who want to love with their eyes wide open.
You don't have to choose between being a good man and being a wise man. You can be both.
The good news? This is completely preventable. You don't have to learn these lessons through divorce court, custody battles, and starting over at 45.
You just need to know what to look for.
Don't let hope blind you to reality. Get the guide that helps you see clearly before you're in too deep.
Your future self will thank you.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Ralph Brewer, a.k.a "DSO", is the founder of "Dad Starting Over" and "Help For Men" and the private support community called the HFM Brotherhood. He has authored five books including Red Flags, The Dead Bedroom Fix, Divorce Panic, Real Talk, and the soon-to-be released Rebuild.
Ralph is married to Nathalie and has four children.
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