No man stands alone.
Join a brotherhood of 900+ members who understand what you're facing. Build lasting friendships, regain your confidence, and find support for stronger relationships and the life you want.
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Start where you are
What's going on in your life right now?
Pick the one that hits closest. Each starts with something free.
The dead bedroomShe stopped wanting you.Ralph's book on bringing attraction back to a sexless marriage, as a free download.
Get the free book →
The affair or the divorceYou didn't see it coming.How to stop panicking, stop chasing and get your feet back under you. Free PDF.
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Starting overThe old plan stopped working.The blueprint for rebuilding your identity, mission, money and relationships from the ground up.
See Rebuild →
Not sureSomething is off, but what?Rate seven areas of your life in two minutes and see where to put your energy first.
Take the free test →The HFM Brotherhood
No man stands alone. Here, you won't have to.
A private community of 900+ members from around the world, working on the same things you are. Inside you get:
- Live group meetings with the coaches, and 1,100+ recordings to catch up on.
- Ralph's books in PDF and audio, and his video courses.
- The private Facebook group and Discord, with brothers who answer.
- Member prices on coaching, and Brofest, our in-person weekend.
30 days free, 3 live meetings included. Then $47 a month if you stay.
1-on-1 coaching
Meet the coaches
Every one of them went through it and came out the other side. Book a private session on video, no membership needed.
Ralph B
Austin G
Gustavo V
Jason H
Marty B
Scott M
Vance N
Live meetings
Sit in a room full of brothers who get it.
Coach-led group meetings on Zoom, on everything from marriage and infidelity to fatherhood, money and mental health. Listen first if you like. Your free trial includes 3 of them.
Free, two minutes
What's your REBUILD Score?
Rate yourself on the seven pillars a strong, grounded life is built on, and see exactly where you stand today.
- Identity
- Masculinity
- Mindset
- Mission
- Money
- Romance
- Brotherhood
Red Flags
Real Talk
WSEAK — Why Sex Ends After Kids
Video courses
Learn at your own pace
Watch each course as many times as you like. Ralph's courses are free for Brotherhood members.
You had our backs. Now we have yours.
Every veteran gets 40% off Brotherhood membership for as long as they're a member, with full access from day one.
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Why HFM exists
“Over a decade ago, my life fell apart. I went through infidelity, a brutal divorce, and found myself a single father of three, lost and broken. I rebuilt my life from the ground up, and along the way I realized my story wasn’t unique.”
Ralph Brewer started Help For Men so nobody has to go through it alone. Today it's a team of coaches, a library of books and courses, and a brotherhood of 900+ members around the world.
Ralph has been a guest on
- Dr. Robert Glover
- Stronger Marriage
- The Aging Well Podcast
- Revolutionary Man
- Raising Men Podcast
- Founders Future
Ready when you are.
Start a free trial of the Brotherhood today: 30 days, 3 live meetings, the meeting archive, and the members' Facebook group and Discord.
