In this live conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover @DrGloverOfficial , author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to talk about the psychology of the modern man—especially the ones struggling in dead bedrooms, difficult marriages, and post-divorce confusion.
We dig into why so many men unknowingly sabotage their relationships, how covert contracts fuel resentment, and what it takes to stop being the “nice guy” and start living a better life. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a marriage with no affection, no sex, and no answers—this is the episode for you.
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0:00:00 - Introduction and Banter with Dr. Glover
0:05:38 - How the 'Nice Guy' Mentality Forms
0:11:00 - Why Balance and Moderation Don't Work
0:14:30 - Living at the Extremes—Conscious vs. Unconscious
0:18:19 - Extremes in Health, Work, and Relationships
0:21:42 - Nice Guys and Covert Contracts Explained
0:27:26 - Resentment, Victimhood, and Emotional Payoffs
0:32:19 - Pre-Meditated Resentment and Relationship Sabotage
0:37:12 - Why We Recreate Familiar Dysfunction
0:42:00 - Victim Mentality vs. Taking Responsibility
0:46:00 - Jay’s Dead Bedroom Story & Glover’s Response
0:52:00 - Dr. Glover’s Turning Point: "I’m Going to Have Sex"
0:58:00 - Post-Divorce Closure and Healing
1:02:30 - Dead Bedrooms and Trauma-Driven Shutdowns
1:06:40 - Borrowed Functioning and Codependency
1:14:00 - Final Reflections and What Really Defines You
1:19:00 - Dr. Glover on Helping Men and Working Together