Live group meetings
Pull up a chair. The brothers are already talking.
Coach-led meetings on Zoom about the things you can't say out loud anywhere else: the dead bedroom, the affair, the divorce, the kids, the job. Start a free trial and your first 3 meetings are on us.
30 days inside the Brotherhood, 3 live meetings included.
The next 30 days
What's on the calendar
Every meeting members can join, in your own time zone. Tap one to see what it's about.
What a meeting is like
A room full of brothers who get it
A coach leads it
Every meeting has a topic and an HFM coach running it, so the hour goes somewhere. Then the floor opens for questions.
Talk, or just listen
Nobody is on day one. Sit in and listen until you're ready. When you do speak, you'll be heard by people who have stood where you're standing.
Missed one? It's recorded
Every meeting is recorded, and members can listen back to more than 1,100 of them whenever they need to.
How the free trial works
Three steps to your first meeting
Start your free trial
Your name, your email and a password, and you're inside the Brotherhood.
Pick a meeting
Choose any meeting on the calendar. Joining one uses one of your 3 free meeting credits; rejoining the same meeting is free.
Show up on Zoom
Join from your phone or computer. Stay for the whole hour and keep the conversation going in the community afterwards.
Try it free for 30 days, then decide
The free trial gets you inside with 3 live meetings and the rest of the Brotherhood. Membership opens every live meeting on the calendar.
| Feature | Free trial | Membership |
|---|---|---|
| Price | $0 for 30 days | $47 a month |
| How long | 30 days | As long as you stay |
| Live member meetings | 3 meetings | Every meeting, every week |
| The meeting archive | ||
| Ralph's video courses | ||
| The members' Discord | ||
| The members' Facebook group | ||
| Ralph's books, PDF and audio | ||
| Member prices on 1-on-1 coaching | ||
| Member prices on coaching programs | ||
| Start free trial | Become a member |
Questions
Before you join a meeting
Is the trial really free?
Yes. Nothing is charged during your 30-day trial, and we email you a week before it ends and again the day before. Cancel any time before then and you pay nothing. Membership is $47 a month if you stay.
How do the free meeting credits work?
Your trial comes with 3 meeting credits. One is used the first time you join a meeting. If you drop off and rejoin the same meeting, or switch devices, it doesn't cost another.
What happens after my 3 meetings?
You keep everything else in your trial: the meeting archive, the video courses, and the members' Facebook group and Discord. Membership opens every live meeting on the calendar.
Do I have to talk, or turn my camera on?
Come and listen first if you'd like. Plenty of members sat in on a few meetings before they said a word. Speak up when you're ready.
Who runs the meetings?
The HFM coaches: brothers who went through the same collapse and rebuilt their lives, and now help others do the same. You can also book any of them for a private 1-on-1 session.
What if a time doesn't suit me?
Meetings run at different times through the week, and the calendar above is shown in your own time zone. Every meeting is recorded, so members can listen to the ones they miss.
Your first meeting is on us.
Start your free trial now, pick a meeting from the calendar and meet the brothers who have been where you are.