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1:30 — "How to get the most out of this book"
Don't start at page one. Start here.
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Chapter 3 — Nice Guys Finish Last
This chapter connects the dots on why everything you've tried hasn't worked. Read it first. You'll understand why.
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Chapter 1 — The Talk
Now go back to the beginning. This frames the problem most men face but can't articulate.
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Chapter 2 — Five Mistakes
You'll recognize yourself in at least three of these. Pay attention to which ones hit hardest.
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Chapters 4–7 — The Fix
The four "Be Her Lover" steps. This is where you go from understanding the problem to doing something about it.
"I read Chapter 3 and felt like someone had been watching my life. That's the chapter that woke me up."
— Brotherhood Member
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