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A Week Inside the Brotherhood

This is what your first week would actually look like. Real meetings. Real conversations. Real men.

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Inside the Brotherhood:

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The guys at Brofest!

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Live Zoom meeting night

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Brotherhood meetup dinner

This Week's Schedule

Live Zoom Meetings

Every week, different topics. Different coaches. Same mission — helping you take action on what the book taught you.

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Chat with Ralph!

In 1 day, 5 hours

Scott — The Reckoning: The Last Lie You Told Yourself This Year

In 2 days, 11 hours

Chat with Ralph!

In 3 days, 5 hours

Kill Marty — Deciding Which Parts of You to Leave in the Past

In 3 days, 12 hours

Don't Worry Be Happy — Finding Joy with Coach Gus

In 31 days

Private Forums

What Men Are Talking About Right Now

Anonymized thread titles from this week. Over 50,000 discussions and counting.

She sat next to me on the couch last night for the first time in months

Posted 2 days ago

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Passed my first major shit test — here's exactly what I said

Posted 3 days ago

31 Replies

2 months in. She initiated last night. I cried in the shower after.

Posted 5 days ago

47 Replies

How do I stop explaining myself every time she gets upset?

Posted 1 day ago

18 Replies

First Impressions

What Their First Week Was Like

"I joined thinking it would be another self-help thing where everyone talks about their feelings. First call I joined, a guy described my exact situation and three men told him exactly what to do. Nobody sugarcoated it. I knew I was in the right place."

— Brotherhood Member

"My first week I just listened. Didn't post anything. Didn't speak on calls. But I read every thread I could find from men in dead bedrooms. By the end of the week I realized I wasn't alone, and I wasn't broken. I was just doing the wrong things."

— Brotherhood Member

"I started working on my co-dependency a year before finding HFM. That journey taught me a lot, but I was fast-tracking toward divorce. The Dead Bedroom Fix and the Brotherhood filled the gap and ultimately saved my marriage."

— Brotherhood Member

Yes, We Get Together In Person

BROFEST — Our Annual Brotherhood Conference

Every year, Brotherhood members gather for two days of workshops, presentations, and real connection. No screens. No anonymity. Just men who've been doing the work, meeting face to face. This is where online friendships become lifelong bonds.

Brofest 2026 is in Louisville, KY — March 27-28. Our sixth annual conference. Past speakers have included Dr. Robert Glover, Lauren "The Dadvocate", and the full HFM coaching team.

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Brofest workshop session

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Group dinner night

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The whole crew

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